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Stalking is not harmless

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January is Stalking Awareness Month. And many in our community experience this traumatic problem, be it from a stranger, someone they may have briefly encountered, or someone they may have ended a relationship with that just won’t let go.

Have you ever had the feeling that someone was watching you? Perhaps you notice a car while you are parking to walk into your office or place of work. Or, you see it parked outside your home, and then it dawns on you—you’ve seen the same car and/or the occupant several times during the past couple of weeks. Then one day, you walk out of your place of work, and the person approaches you and tries to engage you in a conversation—and you feel uncomfortable. Sound familiar?

Several years ago, a young woman in Idaho was stalked by a man who had been a customer of her small business. Ultimately, he violently attacked and severely injured her. Even though she had reported the stalking to the police before the attack, there was nothing they could do because she was not, nor ever had been in any relationship with him.

Or, perhaps you have broken up with a partner or ended a friendship. This can be a stressful life event in and of itself. But how about when the individual will not leave you alone: calling you and sending text or social media messages at all hours–barraging you with belittling and disturbing messages. One hopes that simply standing up for yourself and asking the person to stop will resolve this situation, but what happens even when you ask them to stop, the individual continues to send them to you, causing stress and anxiety as the tone becomes increasingly demanding.

In both of these circumstances, there is action that you can take. Thanks to the anti-stalking legislation passed by the Idaho Legislature early in 2017, you can file a civil protection order against this form of harassment. In fact, with the passage of this legislation, our court advocate team saw a 42% increase in the number of civil protection order filings from 2016 to 2017 (from 982 filings to 1,399). Just this past year, there were 1,676, an increase of 71% over 2016.

January is stalking awareness month, and we appreciate anything you can do to help us let individuals who feel they are being stalked, either in person or virtually, know that our Court Advocates are ready to provide safety planning and input on appropriate civil options that can be taken. Stalking is not harmless. It can cause unnecessary stress and fear and in a few cases lead to deadly consequences.

Call our hotline 208-343-7025 if you find yourself or someone you know in need of help. Visit the Stalking Prevention Awareness and Resource Center (SPARC) resources and tools.

EVENTS

Aug 25

2022

WCA Mission Tour

Join us for a 35 minute virtual tour to learn about our mission of safety, healing and freedom through the stories of clients and the impact of our services. The WCA Mission Tour aims to inspire and educate about the complexities and realities of domestic abuse and sexual assault, both here in the Treasure Valley […]

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Oct 02

2022

SueB 5k 10k 2022

On October 2, 2022, we celebrate the 13th annual SueB 5k 10k at noon After two years of racing virtually, we invite you to join us IN PERSON to raise awareness about domestic abuse, while memorializing the life of an individual who has brought so many people together. The SueB 5k 10k provides a space […]

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Oct 12

2022

Witches Night Out at the Village

Mark your calendars for Witches Night Out on October 12, 2022 from 5 – 9 p.m. Wednesday, October 12 we will be celebrating Witches Night Out at The Village at Meridian, hosted by Meridian’s Centercal Properties and its marvelous merchants. Several sponsors help make the evening a resounding success, raising funds for the WCA’ clients’ […]

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Oct 28

2022

Healing Begins with Hope

WCA Healing Begins with Hope Virtual Outreach and Fundraising Event When: October 28, 2022 As the WCA celebrates 112 years of changing lives, we would like to invite our community to mark their calendars and save the date! The event will be an opportunity to learn more about the WCA’s mission of safety, healing and […]

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