Do you think she or he might be in an abusive relationship?
Does their partner require constant check-ins if they are apart? Has your friend or loved one stopped doing things they used to enjoy, because their partner doesn’t enjoy those things? Do they no longer see other family members or friends because their partner doesn’t get along with them or wants all of their time and attention for themselves? All of these scenarios are concerning and could be signs of an abusive relationship.
Domestic abuse involves a complex dynamic of intimidation, fear, and a pattern of control within intimate relationships. It can be a difficult and frustrating place to be if you care about someone and are concerned they are being abused, but you are unsure how to help them.
The most important thing to remember is that they need your support. So just listen, express your concern for them, but resist going into problem-solving mode immediately.
Here are a few things to help someone in an abusive relationship:
For more information visit http://www.wcaboise.org/get-help/warning-signs/
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